Two Timing?

Last Saturday I made a date with a second e-harmony match- Bollywood. In my memory, I cannot remember ever seeing two guys at the same time, or even being interested in two guys at the same time although Spicy Jalapeño told me that I always have a backup waiting in the wings. Regardless, I was feeling a little weird about the coffee date because at this time The Wrestler was still in the picture.

I met Bollywood in Boulder for a cup of coffee and I actually really liked him. He is an Engineer but has a love of the outdoors and theater. In fact he grew up in India, watching the Bollywood films with his family, so that is where his appreciation for theater comes from. The only downside to the date, and I don’t know if I necessarily would consider it a negative is the communication barrier. I think that some of the nuisances of the language were not translatable- especially some of my sarcasm. All in all, I thought that the date went well; we had coffee and then walked along Pearl Street Mall. However, at the end of the date when I told him I would be interested in seeing him again I didn’t get a definitive answer back from him so I walked away a little unsure. So imagine my surprise when he emailed me on Sunday night to see how babysitting the nieces went and to ask if we played Legos. I was encouraged by the fact that he remembered that I had told him that Legos were my toy of choice growing up, but disappointed that he didn’t suggest that we go out again. I have come to realize that I don’t do well with uncertainty and that I am an action oriented person. I need to be able to find a place where I am ok with this unknown and just ride the ride until the destination becomes clearer.